{"id":148,"date":"2013-11-19T18:05:00","date_gmt":"2013-11-19T18:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adeyesalem.com\/2013\/11\/when-we-fall-down\/"},"modified":"2013-11-19T18:05:00","modified_gmt":"2013-11-19T18:05:00","slug":"when-we-fall-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adeyesalem.com\/when-we-fall-down\/","title":{"rendered":"when we fall down"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever watched the leaves on trees at this time of the year? I find it absolutely fascinating. How do the tress know that this <\/i>is the time when their leaves need to change color and eventually drop to the ground? How does nature KNOW?<\/p>\n

We have an aspen tree in our yard. I think they\u2019re one of the most beautiful trees in creation. I love their simplicity, their gorgeous colors in the summer and fall, and the beauty of their leaves fluttering in the wind.<\/p>\n

Only a magnificent Father in heaven could do something so perfectly.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been observing our aspen over the last few weeks. <\/p>\n

The changing of colors and the shedding of old leaves.<\/p>\n

Shedding to prepare for new life in a few months.<\/p>\n

A tree left barren of its color and graceful elegance.<\/p>\n

Barren before the next spring arrives.<\/p>\n

And some days I look at this leaf and I can totally relate.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

The one who clings to old life.<\/p>\n

The one who struggles to let go of the past\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026and embrace the present season. Wholly.<\/p>\n

The season of barrenness.<\/p>\n

The season of falling to the ground in surrender.<\/p>\n

The season of dormancy\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026.and waiting. Waiting.<\/p>\n

Waiting for abundant new life to spring forth.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just like that dry, brown old leaf.<\/p>\n

Clinging to my old life and struggling to let go.<\/p>\n

Holding on with everything that is within me and forgetting His promises in my life.<\/p>\n

So often I forget His promises. I forget that the seasons He allows us to go through are for our good. They\u2019re for our growth and our maturing. The valleys are there so that God can eventually show us His faithfulness.<\/p>\n

If we only surrender it all.<\/p>\n

I forget that for new life to come\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026the old must go. <\/p>\n

We must <\/i>forget, die to self, give it all into the capable hands of Him who has called us according to His plans and purposes for our lives.<\/p>\n

\u201cForget the former things. Do not dwell on the past.\u201d<\/i> ~~ Isaiah 43:18<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

I am reminded that too often in my own life I\u2019m just like Lot\u2019s wife. <\/p>\n

I look back!<\/p>\n

A little glance over my shoulder at what I\u2019ve left back there\u2014the places God has called us out of and the valley He has now called us to walk through.<\/p>\n

And I yearn for what\u2019s behind.<\/p>\n

I long for the former things\u2014the comforts, the stability, the relationships, the certainty of what was.<\/p>\n

And my heart keeps looking back\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026wishing that things could only be different. <\/p>\n

That life could be going MY way.<\/p>\n

And just like that leaf, I cling by my fingernails to the old life.<\/p>\n

\u201cForget the former things.\u201d He tenderly whispers to my heart for the gazillionth time.<\/p>\n

I fail so miserably at getting that right. I forget that He makes all things beautiful in His <\/i>time, not mine. I forget that everything I go through today and in the future has already been ordained by the hand of an Almighty Father in heaven who adores me and my family. And I forget a truth that I have held onto over the years. They\u2019re the wise words of Charles Swindoll.<\/p>\n

\u201cNothing touches us that has not first passed through His hands.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Everything<\/i> we go through must pass through His hands first.<\/p>\n

So comforting. <\/p>\n

So assuring.<\/p>\n

And so I once again determine in my heart to do as Paul did. <\/p>\n

\u201cBrothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.\u201d <\/i> ~~ Phil. 3:13-14<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Today I will put on the full armor of God and strain toward what lies ahead.<\/p>\n

I will, once again, place our lives in His capable hands\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026and pray with all of my heart that I get it right.<\/p>\n

That my life will be a reflection of His grace and His mercy.<\/p>\n

In the valley.<\/p>\n

And on the mountain top too.<\/p>\n

Just for today I will fall to the ground in surrender\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026and I will wait patiently for spring to come.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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